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#38 My ALS Journey—The Path and the Box
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#38 My ALS Journey—The Path and the Box

December 26, 2023January 11, 2025

This blog of mothers made me laugh out loud, especially her discussion of sitting in the designated handicapped seating area in the church. Mother did not like Boxes. […]

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#37 My ALS Journey—A Good Week
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#37 My ALS Journey—A Good Week

December 13, 2023January 11, 2025

Before my mom was diagnosed with ALS, I would describe her to people by saying she “ran circles around my dad.” Which, actually is saying a lot because […]

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#36 My ALS Journey—Ten to Ten
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#36 My ALS Journey—Ten to Ten

December 13, 2023January 11, 2025

I’ve been considering what it means to be a strong Christian woman. It’s a loaded question in the world of faith. What does that exactly look like? Susan […]

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#35 My ALS Journey—Faith Believing
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#35 My ALS Journey—Faith Believing

April 20, 2023January 11, 2025

Somedays, my faith waivers, and I don’t always (almost never, actually) understand exactly what that purpose is…other than hanging on for the ride. Susan Catlett Sometimes, accepting the […]

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#34 My ALS Journey—A Fun Night
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#34 My ALS Journey—A Fun Night

April 20, 2023January 11, 2025

I think my mom’s joy of buying new shoes for every journey is one of my great joys today. Recently, I completed my Ph.D. (this alone would have […]

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#33 My ALS Journey—Thank You ALS Association
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#33 My ALS Journey—Thank You ALS Association

April 20, 2023January 11, 2025

My mom loved the microphone and the stage. She appreciated the opportunity to educate and encourage others en masse. In this blog, she shares her speech at the […]

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#32 My ALS Journey—The 2,542 Mile Road Trip
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#32 My ALS Journey—The 2,542 Mile Road Trip

February 18, 2023July 4, 2025

“ALS could curl her fingers and weaken her body, but it could not take her joy.” Tricia   My mother was encouraged and inspired by the book Until […]

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#31 My ALS Journey—The Best Parts of Road Tripping
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#31 My ALS Journey—The Best Parts of Road Tripping

February 9, 2023February 15, 2025

One of my best trips was with my mom to a women’s Bible conference in Anaheim. It was during the time of the Rodney King riots. It was […]

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#30 My ALS Journey—Rectified Reasonable Expectations
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#30 My ALS Journey—Rectified Reasonable Expectations

February 8, 2023February 15, 2025

Susan Catlett was bossy. She’d boss with a smile, which sometimes threw people off. Her bossiness worked well for her as a Sheriff’s Officer, school principal, or superintendent […]

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#29 My ALS Journey—Reasonable Expectations
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#29 My ALS Journey—Reasonable Expectations

January 23, 2023February 15, 2025

“It is God to whom and with whom we travel, and while He is the end of our journey, He is also at every stopping place.” Elisabeth Elliott […]

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#28 My ALS Journey—The Road Trip Adventure
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#28 My ALS Journey—The Road Trip Adventure

January 14, 2023February 15, 2025

Three things struck me about this post. First, my mother loved an adventure.  Second, and this is an important aspect of this blog, SweetSpeakableSorrow, is the ease with […]

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#27 My ALS Journey—My Neighbor the Nurse, and My Ride Around the Block
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#27 My ALS Journey—My Neighbor the Nurse, and My Ride Around the Block

January 12, 2023February 15, 2025

My husband and I, my sons, and my parents were all gathered around our large round patio table in my backyard when my mother shared the news of […]

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#24 My ALS Journey—What to Say At the End of the Day
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#24 My ALS Journey—What to Say At the End of the Day

December 29, 2022February 15, 2025

For in grief nothing “stays put.” One keeps on emerging from a phase, but it always recurs. Round and round. Everything repeats. Am I going in circles, or […]

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#23 My ALS Journey—Cliff’s Exclusive Car Service
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#23 My ALS Journey—Cliff’s Exclusive Car Service

November 14, 2022February 15, 2025

When I was in the sixth grade, I traveled with my parents to Brazil. We journeyed with a small group from our church to visit missionaries we supported […]

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#22 My ALS Journey—The Day After Yesterday
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#22 My ALS Journey—The Day After Yesterday

November 3, 2022February 15, 2025

I started going to the Clinic with my parents as my mother’s disease progressed. It was grueling.  It began with the long van ride (with no shocks) and […]

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#20 My ALS Journey—Gains, Losses and Thank You
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#20 My ALS Journey—Gains, Losses and Thank You

October 20, 2022February 15, 2025

“Consider it all joy, my brothers and sisters, when you encounter various (poikilos: many-colored) trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.” James 1:2 & 3   Our family once […]

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#19 My ALS Journey—View From a Wheelchair
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#19 My ALS Journey—View From a Wheelchair

October 18, 2022February 15, 2025

My mom was funny. The way she saw the world during her sickness kept us kinda-sorta sane. She was always looking for the teaching moment in every situation. […]

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#18 My ALS Journey—Wrong Way Turn
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#18 My ALS Journey—Wrong Way Turn

October 10, 2022February 15, 2025

This week I watched a youtube video of Joni Eareckson Tada. At 17 years old, Tada dove into a lake that broke her neck, which left her quadriplegic. […]

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#17 My ALS Journey—The Changing of the Chairs
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#17 My ALS Journey—The Changing of the Chairs

September 26, 2022February 15, 2025

This post shows the wide range of emotions my mother experienced throughout her ALS journey. Every day for ALS patients brings new changes, losses, and unexpected challenges. We […]

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#16 My ALS Journey—Fun Times
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#16 My ALS Journey—Fun Times

September 20, 2022February 15, 2025

Most of my mother’s days during her illness (and health) were filled with this type of fun. She loved to sanctify time and celebrated the people God placed […]

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"Life is unspeakably sad until you recover the lost language of lament. Then it becomes 'speakably' sad and an authentic journey into His presence begins."

Larry Crabb, quoted in A Sacred Sorrow by Michael Card

Welcome to Sweet Speakable Sorrow! If you are here, you may wonder why anyone would want to think about grief or suffering, let alone talk about it. Yet, God is a God who hears us in our sorrow and longs for us to bring our complaints to Him. Sweet Speakable Sorrow is a home where I learned, as taught to me by my mother, to appreciate and cultivate the language of sorrow and give it back to God in praise.

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"Life is unspeakably sad until you recover the lost language of lament. Then it becomes 'speakably' sad and an authentic journey into His presence begins."

Larry Crabb, quoted in A Sacred Sorrow by Michael Card

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