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Hi! I’m Tricia, my mother’s daughter.
ALS / Family / Grief / Jesus / Lou Gehrig's Disease / Susan's Steps

Hi! I’m Tricia, my mother’s daughter.

November 25, 2023November 26, 2024

Hi! Welcome to Sweet Speakable Sorrow. My name is Tricia, and I am my mother’s daughter. The day my mom, Susan Catlett, died, I removed her blog, Susan’s […]

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#1 The ALS Journey
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#1 The ALS Journey

June 3, 2022June 25, 2025

Susan Catlett

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#63 My ALS Journey–New Challenges
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#63 My ALS Journey–New Challenges

February 17, 2026February 17, 2026

What a journey! Rarely during my life have I been ill, yet, much to my chagrin, after all this time, I am still adjusting to all the ‘ins […]

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#62 My ALS Journey–Almost Normal
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#62 My ALS Journey–Almost Normal

February 17, 2026February 17, 2026

Almost every day, Cliff and I are on the move. We do this with intention, primarily because we want to avoid thinking about my condition. I mentioned in […]

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#61 My ALS Journey–Tethered
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#61 My ALS Journey–Tethered

February 17, 2026February 17, 2026

“Tethered: The utmost length to which one can go in action; the utmost extent or limit of ability.”   Last night, while sitting in my power bike, watching […]

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#60 My ALS Journey–What Would My Mother Say?
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#60 My ALS Journey–What Would My Mother Say?

February 17, 2026February 17, 2026

It has been exactly a week since I had my Supra Pubic Catheter surgery, and some people have been a little surprised about my openness on such a […]

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# 59 My ALS Journey–Call 9-1-1
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# 59 My ALS Journey–Call 9-1-1

July 4, 2025July 4, 2025

As the Emergency First Responders headed toward the front door from our bathroom, I yelled to Tricia from the back of the house, “Get their picture!” Cliff was […]

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# 58 My ALS Journey–Catheters and Urine
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# 58 My ALS Journey–Catheters and Urine

July 4, 2025July 4, 2025

Each week, as I prepare to write this blog, I spend time reflecting on events that impact my life, either directly or indirectly related to my ALS, keeping […]

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#57 My ALS Journey–Gimmicks and Gadgets
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#57 My ALS Journey–Gimmicks and Gadgets

July 4, 2025July 4, 2025

This past week, I was jazzed. I like being proactive and figuring things out. I am part of a Facebook group that is only open to ALS patients. […]

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#56 My ALS Journey–Walk and Roll With Me
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#56 My ALS Journey–Walk and Roll With Me

July 4, 2025July 4, 2025

After being diagnosed with ALS in August 2011, our world was turned upside down. We were advised: you have a life expectancy of two to five years, get […]

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#55 My ALS Journey—Some Really Good Things
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#55 My ALS Journey—Some Really Good Things

June 26, 2025July 4, 2025

“Grief is a part of what it means to be human in a broken world. And once you wrap your heart around that fact, your sorrows have a […]

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#54 My ALS Journey—The First Step
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#54 My ALS Journey—The First Step

June 26, 2025July 4, 2025

“It is not down on any map; true places never are.” Herman Melville As they say in many 12-Step Programs, “Hi, my name is Susan and I have […]

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#53 My ALS Journey—My Anniversary Date
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#53 My ALS Journey—My Anniversary Date

May 11, 2025June 26, 2025

“Lady, that’s where Jasper is. He’s in the green house over there!” I’m driving with my just six-year-old granddaughter, Selena, and I strain to turn my head to […]

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#52 My ALS Journey—The Electronic Dilemma
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#52 My ALS Journey—The Electronic Dilemma

February 15, 2025February 15, 2025

  It’s a good reminder here that my mother rarely asked for help. She was highly independent, and even throughout her diagnosis, I was called to come to […]

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#51 My ALS Journey—Rule 15: Be a Crusader & Know Your Disease
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#51 My ALS Journey—Rule 15: Be a Crusader & Know Your Disease

February 15, 2025February 15, 2025

Almost every post I add to this blog guts me. Of course, I miss my mother, but I am also overwhelmed with the sweet gifts her life continues […]

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#50 My ALS Journey—Well Deserved Tantrum
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#50 My ALS Journey—Well Deserved Tantrum

January 11, 2025February 15, 2025

I am very sorry indeed to hear that anxieties again assail you. (By the way, don’t ‘weep inwardly’ and get a sore throat. If you must weep, weep: […]

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#49 My ALS Journey—Yesterday vs. Today
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#49 My ALS Journey—Yesterday vs. Today

February 14, 2024November 26, 2024

This week, I came across a new website entitled Her ALS Story. The site “seeks to raise awareness that ALS impacts young women diagnosed before 35 and provide […]

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#48 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rule 12
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#48 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rule 12

January 27, 2024January 11, 2025

A Rule Book by Susan Catlett Rule #12 for ALS This Rule is a reminder: it is not all about me. This is a tough rule because my […]

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#47 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rule 11
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#47 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rule 11

January 27, 2024January 11, 2025

A Rule Book by Susan Catlett A huge thank you to all for your encouraging words, thoughts, and prayers; it really helps to know you are all out there. […]

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#46 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rule 10
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#46 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rule 10

January 17, 2024January 11, 2025

A Rule Book (cont.) Rule Book and Artwork by Susan Catlett Adding rules to my Rule Book is great fun: it allows me to think through my days, […]

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#45 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rules 7, 8 and 9
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#45 My ALS Journey—The Rule Book: Rules 7, 8 and 9

January 15, 2024January 11, 2025

A Rule Book (cont.) Book by Susan Catlett Having fun and looking for joy in each day is one of my personal rules. I started my Rule Book to […]

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#44 My ALS Journey—Rules 4, 5, 6
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#44 My ALS Journey—Rules 4, 5, 6

January 1, 2024January 11, 2025

A Rule Book (cont.) Book and Artwork by Susan Catlett I think my list of rules is getting longer; I now have over ten. I should probably condense […]

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"Life is unspeakably sad until you recover the lost language of lament. Then it becomes 'speakably' sad and an authentic journey into His presence begins."

Larry Crabb, quoted in A Sacred Sorrow by Michael Card

Welcome to Sweet Speakable Sorrow! If you are here, you may wonder why anyone would want to think about grief or suffering, let alone talk about it. Yet, God is a God who hears us in our sorrow and longs for us to bring our complaints to Him. Sweet Speakable Sorrow is a home where I learned, as taught to me by my mother, to appreciate and cultivate the language of sorrow and give it back to God in praise.

  • #63 My ALS Journey–New Challenges
  • #62 My ALS Journey–Almost Normal
  • #61 My ALS Journey–Tethered
  • #60 My ALS Journey–What Would My Mother Say?
  • # 59 My ALS Journey–Call 9-1-1

"Life is unspeakably sad until you recover the lost language of lament. Then it becomes 'speakably' sad and an authentic journey into His presence begins."

Larry Crabb, quoted in A Sacred Sorrow by Michael Card

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